Axel shares what it was like being chosen as the commencement speaker for his graduation at California State University, Fullerton. He opens up about the inspiration behind his speech, a heartfelt tribute to his culture, his upbringing, and the people who shaped him. Axel also reflects on how the speech unexpectedly went viral, reaching thousands online, including, surprisingly, his own therapist.

Axel talks about what it’s really like dating in today’s world. The apps, the “hey” messages, and the situationships that never stood a chance. He opens up about why finding real connection feels harder than ever, what he’s learned about dating with intention, and why he still believes love isn’t dead… it’s just taking its time.

Axel shares his experience growing up first-gen, from navigating college culture and family expectations to finding belonging and pride in his story. He opens up about the challenges, the culture shocks, and the moments of resilience that shaped him along the way. Axel also reflects on what it means to carry family dreams while creating your own path, a heartfelt tribute to identity, growth, and everyone building the blueprint from scratch.